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Recovery
- What Happens After a Disaster Strikes
The Psychology of Recovery
Recovery
from a natural disaster includes more than finding a place to stay and acquiring
new belongings.
It means understanding the rules concerning when and how you can clean up
your home, coping with television cameras and sightseers who drive by and
stare and processing the anger and disappointment of finding looters stealing
your remaining possessions. It can also mean learning to discriminate the
hucksters from the helpers, the good guys from the bad, at a time when you
are vulnerable.
Recovery
also means negotiating with insurance companies and contractors, filling out
seemingly endless forms and moving from one temporary home to another. It
also means coping with life's everyday problems while in a very
unsettled position. As one survivor who had spent four months in
several different locations put it, "As a displaced person, I felt I didn't
belong anywhere. I was constantly in limbo and couldn't seem to get even
the basic things done".
Recovery
also encompasses the re-establishment of an emotional equilibrium.
All survivors, regardless of age, are affected. And, when a small community
is struck by calamity, a significant number of persons become hidden victims.
While many survive ostensibly appearing unscathed, friends, neighbors and
family may not have been so lucky. However, as the reverberation continues,
it leaves a rupture in community life and many become secondarily affected
by another's tragedy. Nearly everyone is emotionally affected to some degree.
Usually
following disaster, a community is awash with professional caregivers eager
to help people begin re-assembling their lives. While most are good intentioned,
not all are trained in outreach, crisis counseling and debriefing techniques
so essential to the recovery process. As survivors struggle to cope with terror
and loss, they can benefit greatly by counseling from persons skilled in disaster
response caregiving.
The
debriefing process is not a technical critique, nor is it
a form of psychotherapy. It is a group interaction in which survivors are
lead through a series of steps that enables them to talk about their experience
of a disaster. Once people start to talk about personal responses
to trauma, they begin to realize that their stress reactions are normal. Through
continued communication, the long term effects of trauma are lessened.
Aggressive
outreach strategies become key components as many survivors do not
call and make appointments for help. Frequently, they do not even
realize that their emotional struggles are disaster related. Many may have
limited mobility and/or access to transportation. If relocated, they may not
be as visible as those who remain in close proximity to the disaster site.
Disaster
relief requires non-traditional paths in order to effectively reach many victims.
Typically, people's reactions during a disaster are quite similar. Many
experience terror as the danger approaches and their fate remains uncertain.
Yet, with some natural calamities such as tornadoes, there can be a mesmerizing
affect. Many have reported becoming almost hypnotically fascinated by this
awesome act of nature.
As
the ominous circumstances escalate, the experience can become so intense and
detailed that people perceive time and motion distortions. They may mistakenly
believe that they have more time to react than in reality exists. Moreover,
in panic, they may experience their reactions as unusually slowed. The latter
reaction can be even more heightened for those who due to age or disability
do not normally move with facility.
Immediately
after the disaster comes a state of shock and denial. As one survivor
put it, "Everything just shut down". During this phase, survivors will often
appear dazed. Bewilderment, moving about aimlessly, or operating on "auto-pilot"
might also be apt descriptions as people attempt to bring order to their lives.
Since
natural disasters bring many people closer to death than at any other time
in their life, the stage is set for a cataclysm of emotions. Shock is usually
followed by anxiety and fear as one re-awakens to the gravity of the event.
Subsequently, anger, frustration, confusion and grief often emerge. The rage
can be misdirected toward others, including God, causing problems at work
or in relationships. However, when those emotions appear, the cause of the
feelings is usually gone. Failing to make the connection, an individual may
misinterpret his/her reactions as an indication of insanity. It is critical
that people realize that they are not going crazy, but rather, they are experiencing
normal and very powerful feelings in response to an abnormal event.
Nightmares,
flashbacks, self-doubt and fatigue are not uncommon experiences. Jumpiness
is often reported as people begin to emit startled responses to noises. All
of the aforementioned can be further exacerbated when the disaster is protracted,
as with floods, or repeated re-traumatization occurs, as with aftershocks.
As
survivors continue to grapple with their feelings, guilt and depression
often emerge. Guilt can originate from at least two sources. Survivor
guilt may result when one individual has suffered comparatively less than
others. Self-criticism may result from the mistaken belief that a person had
sufficient time to act more heroically. The guilt, "If only I would have .
. .", can deter a person from coping with traumatization, thereby keeping
him/her immobilized in the recovery process.
It
is not uncommon for persons to move back and forth between emotions and shock
as they recover. Eventually though, people begin to "test themselves" by re-establishing
old relationships or developing new ones. They begin to change in some facet,
whether it be in the development of a "buddy system" to prepare for future
danger, reaching out to others, enjoying each day more, or redefining or reinvesting
in their relationships with God. Ultimately, recovery is signaled
by constructive changes that demonstrate acceptance and adaptation.
Survivors can not go back to the way they were before the catastrophe. After
all, as commonly expressed by survivors, "Nothing will ever be the same".
Recovery
efforts need to be structured in order to account for more than an initial
intervention. Often overlooked, it is important to plan for "anniversary
reactions". Anniversary reactions are periods wherein survivors experience
a re-emergence of the cataclysm of emotions that originally occurred after
the initial shock phase. The most typical times for anniversary reactions
are six months and one year post-disaster. For many, however, the yearly anniversary
date can prove difficult for upward to five years.
Many
communities have found it beneficial to organize a formal activity to help
survivors move through these difficult times. Activities such as ceremonial
tree planting, balloon launches and picnics are a few examples of the aforementioned.
The activities serve as a cathartic experience allowing survivors to place
the disaster behind them as well as to embrace and celebrate life.
Older
Americans can experience any or all the previously described reactions. As
with any age group, trauma may be expressed directly through emotional reactions
or be less readily identified by physical reactions such sleep difficulties,
poor appetite, general physical ailments, a deterioration of functioning or
a worsening of an already existent disease process. The difference, however,
is that many older adults may not possess the same degree of resilience as
their youthful counterparts.
Older
persons can also experience particular reactions to trauma as a unique function
of their stage in the life cycle. Faced with the potential losses of loved
ones as well as their own abilities, older individuals can experience such
feelings as increased insecurity even during normal, everyday living. After
encountering the devastation wrought by a disaster, some older adults can
find their natural feelings of insecurity and vulnerability magnified by the
destructive, out-of-control nature of the disaster. They may react with feelings
of increased hopelessness since they do not know if they will live long enough
to rebuild their lives.
The
impact can also trigger memories of other traumas, thus adding to an increasing
sense of being overwhelmed. Many of the anchors to the past such as their
home of many years, photographs and treasured keepsakes - so much a part of
their identity - are gone. Poor health and social isolation can only add to
the ordeal.
In
the process of recovery, it is important for older people to reaffirm
attachments and relationships. While they need to have access to
familiar faces such as old friends and neighbors, often these supports no
longer exist. If older people do not have significant others available, it
is critical that contact be made via assertive outreach programs such as support
groups. It is important that older Americans feel as though they still belong
in the community.
Older
adults need a sense of control and predictability. Re-establishing
routines and having a permanent place to live can help increase a sense of
security, stability and control. Relocation and emergency sheltering may be
unavoidable. However, re-traumatization can be minimized by helping survivors
remain as close to familiar surroundings as possible.
Older
individuals also need to restore feelings of confidence and self-worth. Self-worth
can be enhanced by talking about past successes. Confidence may be nurtured
via guidance in setting manageable goals. Self-direction is essential to one's
sense of integrity.
Because
so much has been lost, older individuals also need to restore feelings of
connectedness. Many will be left with little more than memories. Activities
as simple as remembering and talking about their life can be a starting point
that helps them reconnect with their unique perspective as a part of the history
of mankind.
Each
person recovers at a rate unique to that individual. The ease and
speed of that recovery is affected by many factors. One important factor is
the survivor's emotional state and experiences prior to the trauma. Other
factors include the ability to understand what happened and the availability
of a supportive environment. Recovery, then, can vary in degree from serene
acceptance to a protracted and conflicted struggle.
While
professional counseling is not always necessary, supportive relationships
are essential. Most people find the needed support through family, friends,
ministers or other systems already in place. Friends and family can help survivors
by listening to them and accepting their feelings without judgment. Whether
with the help of a friend or a professional, the recovery process begins in
a helping, supportive context.
In
summary, the recovery process for seniors is quite similar to that
of other age groups but with a few unique features. Talking about
the experience frees one to move forward. Discussing reactions within supportive
relationships enables one to feel connected to others. Individual reactions
to trauma are quite normal and similar. Recovery takes time, usually months
and sometimes years. Each person moves at his or her own pace. Some, due to
experience, age and/or frailty, are more disrupted by trauma. Social isolation
make one more vulnerable to devastation. Finally, memories, rather than tangible
property, can become the connective link to one's place in the world.
* courtesy
of the Administration on Aging
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